Bereavement Support Facilities & Groups
Hope for the Bereaved, Inc.
4500 Onondaga Blvd., Syracuse, NY 13219
Help line: (315) 475-HOPE
This is an amazing place created by a grieving mom in 1979. They have specific support groups for the loss of a spouse, sibling, parent or child. Visit their website to see everything this amazing facility provides. It is worth the travel if you choose to join a group or visit the facility. It is known as the leading grief support resource in Central New York. Wonderful people!
We found great support at:
The David H. Klein Center for Compassion and Healing
3111 Winton Road South, Henrietta
They offer a variety of group meetings where grieving men, women and children can discuss ideas, encourage each other, or just listen. Many people begin in their general, open, drop-in support sessions listed below. One-on-one bereavement support is also available by special arrangement, with a donation to Hospice requested.
Vist their website www.lifetimecare.org for all of the Lifetime Care Support Groups in the Rochester area.
Specific to Loss of a Child:
Compassionate Friends (For Bereaved Parents)
For parents who have lost a child of any age.
Ongoing sessions on 2nd & 4th Tuesdays each month,
7:00-9:00 p.m. at The David H. Klein Center for Compassion and Healing,
3111 Winton Road South. Facilitated by bereaved parents Brenda Schmidt and Becky Price; donation requested.
To Support Grieving Children/Young Adults:
“A Caring Place”
Professionally led, age-related structured sessions for children and teens.
The Center for Compassion and Healing, 3111 Winton Rd. S., Group sessions are professionally led and focus on therapeutic activities. Call Lori Newland at (585) 475-8800 for information on the next eight-week series.
Visit www.lifetimecare.org for more information.
Young Adults Grief Support Group For any young adult who is coping with the death of a significant person in your life. Held the 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of every month. Please call Maureen McFee at (585) 214-1304 for more information
Area Hospital Mental Health Centers And Many Agencies Provide Care on a Sliding-Scale Basis. Check with:
AGAPE Counseling Assoc. www.agaperoc.org or call (585) 385-6030
Catholic Family Center www.cfcrochester.org or call (585) 546-7220
Family Service of Rochester www.familyservicerochester.org or call (585) 287-2010
Jewish Family Service www.jfsrochester.org or call (585) 461-0110
St. Joseph's Neighborhood Center www.sjncenter.org or call (585) 325-3017
Spiritus Christi Church www.spirituschristi.org or call (585) 325-1180
WAYNE & SENECA COUNTIES
Hospice of Wayne & Seneca Counties
A Service of Lifetime Care
1120 So. Main St., Newark, NY 14513
(315) 332-2563 or (800) 562-1650
They offer Open, Drop-In Bereavement Groups. (No registration is required) These groups are for people who have lost a family member (any relationship, any length of time). Not necessary for them to have been on the Hospice program. Call the above phone numbers for times/dates/locations or visit www.lifetimecare.org.
The Niagara Grief Center
36 Pine Street, Lockport, NY 14094 or call (716) 433-3780
The Niagara Grief Center's Mission is to provide sustained emotional support to people of all ages affected by sudden traumatic death and grief. Adult and Teen support groups are also available.
Life Transitions Center, Inc. (affliated with Hospice Buffalo)
1140 Delaware Avenue, Buffalo, NY 14209 or call (716) 836-6460
The Western New York Chapter of the Bereaved Parents of the USA meet on the second Friday of each month at one of this centers facilities. The meetings are facilitated by Tony & Bernadette Misita. Call (716) 675-3844 or visit www.bereavedparentsusa.org or www.lifetransitionscenter.com for more information.
Samaritan Pastoral Counseling Center
322 Old Falls Boulevard, North Tonawanda, NY 14120 or call (716) 9117
Other Resources Available To Find Support/Assistance While Grieving:
Ask your clergy, funeral director, local hospital, school counselor, or physician for grief support information. Also, search the internet for "grief support" or "bereavement support/therapy" in your area. There are many websites with information about area groups. These are only a few that we have found and they have been recommended to us. If you find another agency or group that helps you, please let us know about them and we will gladly post their information so that others can be helped, as well.
We found that many people wanted to help us but were hesitant to reach out to us. They waited for us to reach out to them. You are not alone. There is no cure for your grief, but there is company and understanding along the way, as you travel this new journey.
Ceremony of Remembrance for our Children (any age) who Have Died Before Us
This spiritual observance is being held on Sunday, December 8 at 6:30 p.m. at Church of the Transfiguration, 50 West Bloomfield Road, Pittsford, NY. It is sponsored by the Jeff Milano-Johnson Memorial Fund. Families and friends who have experienced the death of a child, young adult, sibling, or grandchild are welcome. It is a very soothing and peaceful observance that truly touches everyone who attends. *Held in conjunction with The Compassionate Friends Worldwide Candle Lighting© *Open to individuals of any faith. This ceremony is non-denominational.
Send any questions to firstname.lastname@example.org. A few days before the ceremony, you will be asked to electronically send a picture of the child, the correct spelling of his/her name and the number of people who will be attending. There will be a slideshow featuring the photos of the children. If you are not submitting a photo for the slideshow, you can RSVP by December 6th with the child's name and number of people attending.
The ceremony includes a music, harpist, children’s names read, candle lighting, and poetry.
Bring additional photo (framed pictures able to stand work best, no larger than 8 x 10) by 6:15 pm on the night of the Ceremony.
Light refreshments following the event.
Donations will be accepted and provided to a local food bank in honor of loved ones.
If you are not able to RSVP in time, please come anyway.
Limited transportation assistance may be available.
For information call: Elaine Deacon, 585-889-2574 or Peggy Solka, 585-265-4585; or contact email@example.com
Also, visit the website of the facilites listed on this page. Many, if not all of them, have remembrance ceremonies and events throughout the year.