Please read these stories from other parents, families and friends who have suffered and are surviving the physical loss of their beloved child. This community of fellow bereaved parents, family and peers will touch your heart and remind you that you are not alone. You will survive this journey… one step at a time. Others are on this path… just a few steps ahead or behind you.
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Josh's story
On an ordinary Tuesday afternoon in April 2005, 10-yr-old Joshua Rojas came home from school. He did his math homework, played Play Station II for a while, ate pork chops for dinner and then got ready for his first travel soccer practice of the season. He was going to be dropped off at practice by his dad, Pat, and picked up by his mom, Kristan. As he was running out the door to leave, he said a quick hello to his 13-yr-old sister, Katrina (who had just returned from lacrosse practice) and yelled over his shoulder, "Bye Mama! I love you!" Kristan replied, "Don't worry, buddy. Wait for me and I will be there!" A mere thirty minutes later, Joshua''s physical life was over. As his body collapsed on the soccer field, his soul soared to the heavens. Kristan was with him in his final moments attempting to revive him. She knew in her heart that he was gone, but she kept reminding him that he was loved... he was safe... and she thanked him for being the amazing little man that he was. Devastation... agony... shock... Words cannot fully express the emotions. This sudden, devastating loss consumed Josh's family and his community of friends, neighbors, and even people who had never met him before. Pat, Kristan and Katrina were embraced by this wonderful community. The outpouring of love and support came from all avenues of their lives. However, the family was left searching for professional guidance. How would they cope? What "red flags" should they look for in themselves and in each other? Were they going to survive? Who could help? Who could listen? Were other families struggling to survive just like they were? The Josh Rojas Foundation was created in memory of their beloved son. The main focus of this organization is to support families who suddenly lose their child... emotionally, spiritually, and financially... assisting them as they travel this agonizing journey... All the while feeling so very thankful that these amazing children were here... even for such a brief time.
